My new dating strategy for 2019

Dating’s changed in the last decade.

There’s online dating, tindering, bumbling…

But what is there for the discerning gentleman who’s ready to consider, shall we say, a more strategic approach?

Here’s the idea in a nutshell:

You place a personal ad in the classified section of a local magazine.  Do a bit of research before selecting which one.  For instance, if you’re looking for an executive or a professional you might try a board of trade newsletter.  You’ll catch a different type of fish in that pond than in the local dailies.

In your ad, describe your value proposition.

What are YOU bringing to the table?

What features and benefits?

Are you a successful lawyer?  Six-foot-two and built like a Greek God?

Put that in there, along with a one-liner about your ideal mate:

“Seeks erudite, worldly, fun and sporty woman for general dating and romance.”

Using words like erudite, worldly, and sporty helps qualify your prospect.  Any woman that self-identifies with these traits is likely to be educated, well-established and into some form of physical activity.

Then, you need a call-to-action, eee gee:

“Visit this website for more info: eligiblebachelor.com.”

The website is your landing page.  Here again, you want to reassure her she’s in the right place.  Restate your value.  Maybe upload a couple of well-chosen pics of you, and maybe with other people who look like they’re having fun.

That’s your “social proof”.

Next, you need to fill in the blanks about your target market.  Is she a single mother, or a career woman with no kids?  Be specific.  The more it resonates, the more she’ll become interested.  Less compatible candidates will disqualify themselves.  This saves you the trouble of doing it.

And the final test?

Another CTA:

“If you’d like to start a chat, fill out the form on the right.”

This form might ask her to provide a picture, a brief bio, and what she’s interested in.

Finally, you look over all your web submissions.  You’re now in a position to pick and choose who you want to learn more about.  And with your landing page (which is really a sales letter) you’ve made her jump through so many hoops that when you do finally make “first contact”, she’s excited to hear from you.

What say you?

I might be on to something here.

Either that, or I’ve been working too much and it’s encroaching on my personal life…

The ways of love may be mysterious, but the ways of marketing, thankfully, are not.

To effortlessly make new love connections with a steady stream of your best clients, request your Free Brainstorm Call with Yours Muscularly over yonder:

http://calendly.com/conorkel/emailincome

Happy Dating,

Conor Kelly
a.k.a. “The Muscle” @ Marketing Muscle

P.S.  I’m clearly having fun with the above but it’s also one of the most succinct explanations of direct-response marketing you’ll ever come across.  Word to the wise: I’d print this out, read it over 10 times, and put aside 30 minutes to brainstorm how you can apply this to your business.

P.P.S. As the late, great marketing genius and hall-of-fame copywriter Gary Halbert once said:

“There are very few problems in life that can’t be solved with a good sales letter.”

Tell The Muscle your problems:

http://calendly.com/conorkel/emailincome 

3 email types that sell better than Captain Picard skull caps at a Star Trek convention

Here’s the deal:

One of my big goals this year is list-building.

With that in mind, I’m going to make you a very simple offer today.  If you’re enjoying all the content on this site, I invite you to join my email list here:

https://emailmarketingmuscle.com/optin

And, to “ethically bribe” you to do this right now, if you forward me your confirmation email to conor@conorkelly.com, before tomorrow June 22nd at 11:59PM EST, I will send you a brand new video breakdown I just created…

“Three emails that converted BIG and why”

In the video I’ll break down three of my most successful emails…pull back the curtain to reveal the inner psychology that made them so effective…and explain how you can model them to make more sales today.  You’ll get very specific, very detailed secrets I use to create high-converting emails – pretty much “on command”.

If you haven’t seen one of my video breakdowns, you’re in for a treat.

I do these for clients all the time – often to rave reviews.

Which makes me think I should do more of this type of thing for you.

Note to self.

Anyway, if you currently do anything with email this could be some of the most valuable marketing training you get all year.  Even if you don’t, you’ll still learn a lot.

And the price is right.

Once more:

  1. Get your friend (a legit business owner) to sign up for my list here:

https://emailmarketingmuscle.com/optin

2. Your friend sends me their confirmation with your email in it by Monday June 24th at 11:59PM EST.

3. You get a very rare, kickass email marketing training that you can’t find anywhere else and can use as soon as today to make more sales.

But don’t dilly-dally.

I won’t be making this offer again.

Once it’s gone, it’s gone.

Happy Profiting,

Conor Kelly

a.k.a.  The Muscle @ Marketing Muscle

Never do this on your website’s pages

Copywriting tip today.

One of the things I’ve been getting a lot of lately is sales page critiques.

In a recent consultation, it came out that one of the owners of the business had some pretty unique experience related to the product they were selling.  In fact, I’d go as far as to say he’s so uniquely qualified to do this sort of thing, that if you were in their market and you knew about him, you’d never consider going anywhere else.

Yet, these credentials were buried at the bottom of the page.

I didn’t even see them at first.

This comes back to what marketing genius and all-time copywriting great Gary Halbert taught about why you must “prepare people to believe”.

You see, we learn that selling is about benefits.

People “buy the hole, not the drill” and all that jazz.  So that’s what many business owners do…throw a bunch of benefits on the page with an order button.

And that can work to some extent.

But without context…your benefits won’t have anywhere near the same ability to tug at your prospect’s wallet.  Per Gary The Great…you’ve got to prepare people to believe your claims.  And until you have their belief, you won’t command their attention.  Your prospect could feel pretty “meh” regarding your offers at that point…a dire situation for any salesperson.

A caveat:

Overdo credibility and it can cost you sales.  There’s a delicate balance to be observed here that the best copywriters know how to push and pull on like a seductive dance.

All that’s to say if you’ve got a sales page you’d like my feedback on, go here to book your Free Brainstorm Call:

http://calendly.com/conorkel/emailincome

I’m currently booking projects three weeks out (so I won’t have time to work on a more detailed critique until at least then)…but if you reply today we can figure out if it’s a fit and get you in the queue.

Yarrrr, that’s all for today.

Powerful lesson she be.

Belief is like oxygen to your copy.

Start with why they should believe you…

And never leave a benefit stranded.

Happy Claiming,

Conor Kelly

a.k.a. The Muscle @ Marketing Muscle

The MYTH of hard work

Maybe you needed to hear this today:

It’s a video I made in 2017 about how all these social media gurus hype “hustle” and “grind” as though they were the be-all and end-all of entrepreneurship.  Yeah you need a certain amount of persistence.  No question.

But you also need vision.

And smart systems.

One of my early mentors liked to say that when you motivate someone who’s going downhill all you’re doing is speeding them up.   Instead, stop them.  And educate them.

On that note, here’s a little chicken soup for the slacker’s soul:

There’s a secret 9-word email being used by the world’s most elite marketers that is cashing in BIG for a few lucky list owners.  The best story I heard so far is one of my colleagues used it to sell a $50M super yacht.

Yes I know how weird that sounds.

But it’s also true.

There was a bit more back and forth required to close the deal, but that simple 9-word message initiated it.

Here’s the catch:

I’ve seen this work like gangbusters in some markets, and utterly flop in others.

What those “magic” 9 words are…

Whether your industry is a fit…

And literally dozens more high-level email tactics and strategies…

All are to be found “inside” your Free Brainstorm Call with Yours Muscularly:

http://calendly.com/conorkel/emailincome

The levers we need are all around us.  They’re the tiny marketing hinges that swing open big doors through which profits flood in.  Smart email and smart copy are two of the best examples in my battle-tested experience.

Less “hustle”…

More leverage.

Happy Slacking,

Conor Kelly

The Muscle @ Marketing Muscle

P.S. I’ve been rocking the Celtic red beard for a while but watching this video I’m wondering if it’s not time to go back to clean-shaven…decisions, decisions.

5 reasons why every author should market themselves with email

Dear Fellow Writer,

If you’re an author who’d like to build a following, sell more books, and be seen as the go-to person in your industry, then this article will show you how – by using simple emails.

Without further ado, here are 5 reasons why every author should market themselves using email:

 

REASON #1: Publishing has changed.

The Internet (and Amazon) have changed the publishing game.  Gone are the days of big advances or publishers putting major marketing bucks behind a book launch.  In fact, unless you’re already a celebrity of some kind, the expectation is you’ll market your own books, whether you choose to self-publish or not.

So why would you choose to market yourself with email?

Everything’s moving online.  Heck, people are even ordering groceries from Amazon now.  And online, email is king.  No other medium on the World Wide Web is putting more sales into spreadsheets than email.  As Forbes reported in June 2018, email marketing is not dead at all.

Not everybody checks Facebook every day, but the average person checks their email five times per day.  Email is pervasive, global, and foundational to way we communicate as a culture.  And it will be for the foreseeable future.

Email has the highest ROI of any form of marketing (4300% according to The Direct Marketing Association).  Fully 60% of business owners say email is their most profitable marketing channel.  And according to McKinsey, a consultancy, you’re about 40% more likely to get a customer from email than from social media.

So the real question is what is it costing you not to market yourself with email?

 

 

REASON #2: Build your audience.

There is simply no better way to build a rabid following than with email.  While Facebook claims 2 Billion accounts…a full 25% of those are fake.  Email, on the other hand, boasts a hefty 6.32 Billion active accounts, making it 5x bigger than Facebook.

But the #1 reason to build a thriving email list?  You OWN your list.  It’s yours.  You can download that sucker and re-upload it somewhere else.  You can communicate with your list in the manner of your choosing.  There’s no one who can tell you otherwise.  And there’s no one who can take your list away from you.

You don’t own your social media followers.

An email list, especially a responsive one, is an asset.  Arguably the best asset you can have.

If you want to establish yourself as a leader, and the go-to person in your niche, the fastest way to do that is by regularly publishing high-quality content to a loyal legion of “fans”.  It becomes your “platform” for getting published and selling books, or whatever else you want to sell.

 

REASON #3: Sell more books.

You can engage, motivate, inspire, and SELL in ways you never could using social media.  All of this as a welcome guest in their inbox.

The best analogy I’ve heard for how to do this comes from email marketing great, Matt Furey.  He said to think of talk radio hosts like Howard Stern and how they’ve built they’re audiences.  Every day (or every week) your subscribers tune in to your “show” because they want the latest.  They want to read what you have to say.

Bottom line, your readers become more loyal to you with every email you send.

Imagine your favorite food is chocolate chip cookies. And every day I show up to your house in the afternoon with one freshly baked, chocolate chip cookie, just how you like it. How quickly are you going to love seeing me and hearing from me? The answer is almost immediately. When you do email marketing the right way, the result for your customers is the same.

 

REASON #4: Sell more other stuff.

Are you ready for the best part?  Once you have a throng of loyal subscribers, you can pretty much sell them anything.  They’re already sold on you.  In addition to your books you can offer events, courses, and high-ticket coaching programs.  Whatever you’re passionate about that you also know your followers want.

In this way, you mine the “acres of diamonds” in your backyard. You build out your suite of products and services to dramatically grow your income.  And your marketing dollars stretch further with email.  That’s because the relentless “drip marketing” effect nurtures the relationship and improves sales on the “back end”.

 

REASON #5: Attract other marketing opportunities.

Finally, email done well attracts other marketing opportunities.

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve received referrals, requests for speaking engagements, or created joint venture partnerships, simply because someone on my list forwarded one of my emails.

The key is to be interesting.  If you’re interesting, you’ll get noticed.  When you get noticed, this will attract opportunities that were never even on your radar.  That’s when the journey gets really fun!

 

“But won’t I annoy people with too many emails?”

If your current emails are simply telling your customers and prospects about promotions and things going in your business, you shouldn’t be sending 1-2x per month, you should never be sending.

Why?

Because the best email marketing programs make the emails about the customer, not the business. They speak to their interests, attracting their attention and then gently compel them to buy more of your products and services. It’s a win-win. The customers love reading the emails, and your business wins because every email you send increases profits and revenue.

More than 60% of customers (those 25 or older in particular) would prefer to be contacted by brands via email (Adobe “Email Use 2017 – US Report“, 2018).  It is possible to get people “hooked” on your particular brand of emails.  Why not give them their regular dopamine rush?

 

CONCLUSION

If you want to grow your status as an author, email is the way to do it.  It establishes your positioning, and lets you sell more based on the credibility you’re building.  But here’s the catch:  Copywriting – i.e. writing to sell and persuade – and email marketing are different skill sets than most authors who write content, possess.

I know plenty of authors who’ll email their list a weekly article or something, but they’re not making many sales.  If you have a passion for learning copywriting, I encourage you to pursue it.  If not, it’s easier than you think to hire a professional copywriter like me.  Sure, the best of us aren’t cheap.  But the results are astronomical.  Having great copy in your emails and on your sales pages can literally transform your business overnight.

You’re a writer.  You get it.  Words matter.  And high-converting words make all the difference.

Good luck on your email marketing journey.  It’s a rewarding one, I promise you.

And if there’s anything I can do to help, it would be my pleasure.  Simply book your no-stress, Free Brainstorm Call here:

http://calendly.com/conorkel/emailincome

 

ABOUT CONOR KELLY

Conor Kelly is a leading copywriter, email marketing specialist, and publisher of the “Small Business Marketing” Newsletter.  He also publishes daily email marketing tips on his website at http://www.ConorKelly.com .  He specializes in helping authors, speakers, and coaches sell more books, courses, and high-ticket coaching programs.  His emails are read by people all over Canada, The U.S.A., Europe, and Africa.

4 Books That Changed My Life

Confession time…

I’m really a nerd trapped in a strongman’s body.

I read voraciously, and when I do, I use a pen to underline important passages (no pocket protector for that pen…YET).  I read many things twice, even three times.   And once in a blue sunrise, I come across something that inspires me to read it over and over again.

These 4 books are like that.  I’ve read each of them at least five times.

This year, I shalt devour them once more.

To make a short story long, here they are:

1. Think and Grow Rich, by Napoleon Hill.  First published in 1937, it’s the best-selling personal development book of all time AND tops the reading list for most of the world’s wealthiest entrepreneurs.

But don’t be mistaken, this is not simply a book about how to get rich.  Andrew Carnegie hired Napoleon Hill to interview and stalk crazy successful humans like Henry Ford, Thomas Edison, and Theodore Roosevelt, to discover their methods and deliver the ultimate success philosophy.

What’d I tell ya?  That’s all kinds of cool.

(P.S.  Lately I’ve developed a preference for his later work, Grow Rich With Peace of Mind.  It’s more concise and is straight-up stacked with wisdom.)

2. The Magic of Believing by Claude M. Bristol.  Arnold Schwarzenegger, among others, has credited this book with changing his life.  And behold, the little Austrian boy has done okay for himself.

It’s sort of vomited onto the page with little direction in terms of chapter subheadings, but it’s filled from cover to cover with amazing stories that illustrate its core principles.

Truly an eye-opening read.

3. Psycho Cybernetics by Maxwell Maltz.  Dr. Maltz was a plastic surgeon.  He found that for most people, if you give them a facelift, a nose job, or remove a prominent scar, it would transform their entire personality.  But in some cases, even when the surgery had been successful, the patient would fail to notice ANY improvement in their appearance.

This led him to posit the existence of a self-image as separate from what we see in the mirror…and that the key to change lies in altering this self-image.

Deep stuff.

4. The Complete Works of Florence Scovel Shinn.  A contemporary of Napoleon Hill’s, she’s remarkable for being a woman in a field that – especially in the first half the 20th century – would have been uniquely male.

This one’s got a definite Christian bent (a lot of interpretation of the Bible), which might not be your cup of tea, but I still think it’s worth a mention.  I’ve given it to non-Christians who loved it so much it became their Bible.

She writes with a joyful tone and makes you feel playful about life.  It’s hard not to be charmed by her.  Also, her affirmations are great in dealing with fears and anxieties, and have guided me through some tough, valley-of-the-shadow-of-death type places.

By the way, you’ll notice not one of these was published any later than 1960.

There’s a method to my madness.

I like principles that have stood the test of time.

Anywhoo, put these on the reading list for 2019, or don’t.

Whatever minces your mackerel.

Just know that each of the above has helped me big time.

For further inspiration – and for email creation – follow the yellow brick road here to get your no-fuss Free Brainstorm Call:

http://calendly.com/conorkel/emailincome

But don’t delay.

I’m already booking projects several weeks out and my calendar is filling up.

Happy Reading,

Conor Kelly

 

 

 

How to get more clients by spending less on marketing

A subscriber writes…

“I feel like I’m climbing up a hill with this SEO thing…like it’s a big investment with little results.  Do you think if I took what I’m spending on SEO and put it into building my email list instead, I’d have better luck?”

Ah yes, the classic case of marketing mountaineering.

Far less invigorating than real mountaineering, it is.

Many never make it back.

One client had been plunking down an eyebrow raising 6K a month for a year on an SEO service, and only made it to the bottom of page one on Google.

It’s enough to cause hypothermia and starvation, namely of thy bank balance.

What do I think?

I don’t know about you, but I sure as heck don’t want the good folks at Google with their finger over the kill switch of my marketing.  If SEO’s all you got…you’re one boardroom meeting away from dead.

(I recently recounted my tale of woe; the time a policy update at Adwords sent my lead count spiraling down the drain and my cost per lead soaring into the stratosphere.)

For my shekels, you can’t help but get better (and more predictable) results with list-building.

I’ve said it before and I’ll keep belting this tune to the rafters until I get the hook: you OWN your list.  It can’t be policy’d, de-platformed, or curated out of existence by the powers-that-be.  Keep your subscribers edge-of-their-seats engaged, wondering what you’ll do next, and make them juicy offers they want that solve a pressing need they have…and you got yourself real – not hypothetical customers.

Throw in a sales page that converts…

And well, better keep the champagne on ice.

Besides, the marketing equivalent of a day on the golf course is better than sending your dollars careening down an icy cliff face in Google’s no man’s land.

Save your adrenalin-fueled adventures for the weekend.

Who’s with me?

Get off the mountain here:

http://calendly.com/conorkel/emailincome

Happy Golfing,

Conor Kelly
“The Muscle” @ Marketing Muscle

Do you have this common blind spot in your marketing?

Recently I was at one of my fave boutique coffee shops.

I like the owners.

I like the place.

And I noticed they’re not as busy as they could be.

So I said to one of them, “Why don’t you offer everyone who comes in 10% off their tab in exchange for their email address, which you’ll use to send them exclusive discounts.  Then, let me help you bring them in more often.”  His first question back to me was, “email, huh…but what do you think is coming next?  What’s the next big ‘marketing thing’?”

Like what?  You have some examples?

Video conferencing, video chat, text chat, chat bots, live chat, text messaging, social media, Facebook messenger, what’s app…all those things are already here.  And email is still going strong.

Not everybody checks Facebook every day, but the average person checks their email five times per day.  Email is pervasive, global, and foundational to way we communicate as culture.  And it will be for the foreseeable future.

Besides, this question misses the point.

I’m showing you how to bring in more business RIGHT NOW.  What does it matter what might be around the corner at some hypothetical future date?  Your customers are on email TODAY.  And it costs you nothing to promote to them that way.  The only legit excuse for not using email is you don’t like making money.

More:

I find many business owners have this blind spot when it comes to their marketing.

Another example…the first thing I ask new clients to do when they sign up is make a list of warm contacts with similar but non-competitive businesses we can co-promote with.  For a chiropractor, it might be the personal training studio located nearby.  Often they’re surprised when they realize all the contacts they have but aren’t leveraging.

Call it shiny object syndrome…

I call it marketing myopia.

It’s that shortsightedness that afflicts all of us every now and again when we’re busy doing what we do.

What opportunities might you be missing?

Here’s how to find out:

1. Step into Dr. Muscle’s office.

2. Let me outfit your marketing with some corrective lenses.

3. See the world (and your bank balance) in glorious technicolor once again.

Then we can all go out to lunch and celebrate.

Your prescription here:

https://calendly.com/conorkel/emailincome

Happy Seeing,

Conor Kelly

a.k.a  The Muscle @ Marketing Muscle

Do not put these two words in your offers

While back I sent my client their email promo.

I’d crafted a fine offer.

Put some “muscle” on it (iii eee spiced it up with a few psychological triggers to help folks buy).

Then, I entrusted them with its care.

When it landed in my inbox, they’d added a bunch of words without telling me.

Where I’d made a point of emphasizing this was an exclusive offer to our subscribers…tacked on was the statement please share this with anyone you think would benefit.

In our next meeting I queried, “so…who added this bit?”

The business owner cautiously admitted “that might have been me”.

I said, “yeah…don’t do that.”

The two words not to put in your offers?

Please share.

Here’s why:

One, exclusivity is one of said ‘psychological triggers that help folks buy’.  Humans are enticed by access.  And our nervous systems are wired to think of what is rare as valuable.  If just about anyone can have your offers, there’s a good chance no one will want them.

Two, it can come off as needy and hurt your positioning with your prospect.

In fact, using please DON’T share often packs more punch.

Finally, to paraphrase Perry Marshall, every time you hit ‘send’ you are training people to read your next email.  You do this mainly by keeping your content interesting, relevant, or entertaining in some way.  But bigging up the exclusivity of your offers doesn’t hurt either.

Who wants to miss out on a great deal?

The only time asking readers to forward your emails can work is if you frame it as “I’m on a mission to help” as I did once with a client who did magnesium infusions to cure headaches and migraines.  The treatment is (a) ridiculously effective (one woman got rid of a 17-year headache her first go), and (b) everyone knows at least one person with this problem.

Such was my logic.

Most offers aren’t like that.

Anyway, take it for what it’s worth – the psychology of this works everywhere, not just in email.

Heed my cautionary tale today.

People like exclusivity.

Why not give it to them?

Happy Excluding,

Conor Kelly

The Muscle @Marketing Muscle

P.S.  I have great news for those who have been asking.  I recently freed up time in my schedule to take on one more local business.  If you’d be interested, just reply “interested” in the comments and I’ll get you all the details.

Drug dealing for fun and profit

True story:

My subject line today was the original title of Tim Ferris’ famous book, The Four Hour Work Week.

Not surprisingly, the publisher said “no way”.

So Tim took it to the court of public opinion.

He used Google Adwords to split test book titles, and thus landed on the phrase that would ultimately brand the book’s cover.

And, sho ‘nuff, the book was a runaway best-seller.

Similarly, here’s a little-known way to probe and uncover your customers’ most fervent appetites.

Watch your open rates.

I don’t mean obsess over them, like some folks do.

I’m well aware there are those who would cast doubt on the accuracy of open rates (Android phones have HTML turned off by default, they say).

And your open rates will vary with the tides.  If you add a lot of new subscribers, or start emailing more frequently, they’ll most likely go down.

I don’t care about all that.

I do think they’re useful as a relative measurement.

Other things being equal, when a subject line gets a higher-than-usual number of opens, there’s something to it.  It may even be the smoke that hints at a wildfire of hot, flaming desire in your market.  Not only can you reuse or recycle it, but it can help inform other marketing decisions as well.

Allow me to demonstrate.

I had a client in the women’s fitness niche who told me her highest ever open rate was for Do You Want to Look like a Fitness Model?

So I said, “Run it again”.

And guess what?

Same result.

Sky-high opens.

In theory, what could she do with said knowledge?

Just off the top of my head (and this all should be tested)…

*Add “Look like a fitness model” as a slogan to her business cards

*Use that same question on flyers, postcards, and in other print advertising

*Test variations of the same in her Facebook or Google ads

*Say these words when talking to prospects on the phone or when meeting people face to face at a luncheon

*Take it a step further and create an 8-week program called Look Like A Fitness Model and sell it to her subscriber list

*And more

The point is open rates can be valuable intel.

When you know the words that make your market’s eyes light up and their mouths water, your messaging becomes tighter and more impactful.  You’ve got the right “drug” to get ‘em hooked on you.

This all can sound a little complicated if you’re new to it.

Would you like me to handle this “marketing stuff” for you?

Book your stress-free brainstorm call to see if you’re a fit:

http://calendly.com/conorkel/emailincome

Discover your fun and profit (although perhaps not your 4-hour work week)….

Happy Drug Dealing,

Conor Kelly
“The Muscle” @ Marketing Muscle